Beyond Visibility: Supporting Trans Youth Every Day

March 31st is Trans Day of Visibility (TDOV), a time to honor and celebrate trans and nonbinary people who live their truth. It’s also a day to reflect on what it means to be visible and to recognize the work that still needs to be done to ensure trans youth feel supported, safe, and empowered.

TDOV was founded in 2009 by trans activist Rachel Crandall-Crocker (she/her), who wanted a day that focused on the joy and resilience of trans communities. At the time, the only widely recognized day for trans people was Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), which memorializes those lost to anti-trans violence. Crandall-Crocker envisioned a day that celebrated life, not just loss.

Visibility has given trans youth hope by showing them that they are not alone. Seeing trans people thrive in public life sends a powerful message: You are valid, and you belong. But visibility alone isn’t enough. Trans youth need more than recognition—they need meaningful support that affirms their identities and protects their futures.

The Power and Limits of Visibility

Being seen is an essential step toward acceptance, but visibility comes with risks, especially for trans youth. Living authentically in a world that often misunderstands or rejects trans identities can lead to increased scrutiny, discrimination, and violence. Black and Brown trans women, in particular, continue to face disproportionate violence and systemic injustice.

For trans youth, visibility can be empowering, but without a strong support system, it can also make them more vulnerable. Safe spaces, affirming relationships, and access to mental health resources are what allow trans youth to move from merely being seen to truly thriving.

When we provide trans youth with environments where they can explore their identities freely, they develop the confidence and resilience to navigate a world that doesn’t always embrace them. Visibility should be a catalyst for deeper engagement, not the end goal.

How to Support Trans Youth Beyond TDOV

TDOV is a celebration, but it should also be a call to action. Trans youth need allies who are willing to go beyond acknowledgment and invest in their safety, growth, and success. Here are some ways to show meaningful support:

💸 Contribute to Organizations That Uplift Trans Youth
Out Youth and other organizations across the US create safe, affirming spaces where trans youth can build community and access life-saving resources. Donations help sustain these programs and ensure that trans youth have the support they need to thrive.

📣 Amplify Trans Voices
Sharing and engaging with trans creators, activists, and leaders increases visibility and challenges harmful narratives. Make space for trans voices in conversations about equity and justice.

📚 Educate Yourself and Your Community
Understanding the realities that trans youth face is an essential part of being an effective ally. Learn about trans identities, systemic inequalities, and the challenges that impact trans communities. Use that knowledge to challenge misinformation and advocate for change.

⚖️ Advocate for Policy Protections
Trans youth deserve to feel safe in their schools, homes, and communities. Support policies that protect trans rights and push back against those that threaten their well-being. Staying informed and using your voice to advocate for fair and just policies makes a real difference.

Building a Future Where Trans Youth Thrive

TDOV is a reminder that trans youth are here, making their mark, and shaping the world around them. But they need more than a moment of recognition. They need communities that stand with them, resources that affirm them, and policies that protect them.

By moving beyond visibility and toward meaningful action, we can create a future where trans youth feel safe, supported, and valued. Every step we take brings us closer to that reality.

Honoring LGBTQIA+ Women Who Changed History

When we talk about the trailblazers of history, the stories of LGBTQIA+ women are often overlooked, yet their impact is undeniable. From fighting for civil rights to breaking barriers in art, politics, and science, these women changed the world.

If you dream of becoming an astronaut, an activist, a writer, or anything in between, the women in this list prove that anything is possible. Their stories are here to inspire you to live boldly and fearlessly, no matter what challenges you face.

Why Is It Important to Honor LGBTQIA+ Women Who Changed History?

The stories of LGBTQIA+ women have often been erased from history, but that doesn't mean their contributions didn't change the world. We learn about these women to ensure their stories live on and continue to inspire.

Seeing yourself reflected in history is powerful. It reminds you that you belong, that your voice matters, and that you have the power to make a difference.

LGBTQIA+ Women Who Changed History

Here are some of the most influential LGBTQIA+ women who made history across different fields. Let their stories inspire you to dream big and be fearless in chasing your goals.

Marsha P. Johnson (1945 - 1992)

Field: Activism

Marsha P. Johnson, a Black transgender woman and drag queen, was one of the most important figures in the Stonewall Uprising of 1969, a major event that sparked the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement. Marsha was fearless, joyful, and dedicated to fighting for the rights of queer and trans people, especially those who were unhoused or struggling.

Her courage and love for her community changed the world. Today, Marsha is remembered as a symbol of resilience and power and one of the greatest historical figures in the American LGBTQIA+ community.

Notable Quote: "As long as my people don't have their rights across America, there's no reason for celebration."

Learn More: Marsha P. Johnson Biography

Audre Lorde (1934 - 1992)

Field: Literature, Activism

Audre Lorde described herself as a "Black, lesbian, mother, warrior, poet." She wrote powerful books and essays about race, gender, and sexuality and never backed down from speaking the truth. Audre believed that embracing one's identity was a form of resistance and that every voice mattered.

Her writing inspires activists and creatives today to stand up for themselves and others.

Notable Work: Sister Outsider (1984)

Learn More: Audre Lorde Biography

Lorena Borjas (1960 - 2020)

Field: Activism

Lorena Borjas was a Mexican-American transgender activist who dedicated her life to defending and uplifting transgender people, especially trans people of color. She founded the Lorena Borjas Community Fund to support transgender immigrants and provide resources to those in need. Lorena also advocated fiercely for the rights of sex workers and worked to ensure that transgender people could live freely without fear of violence or discrimination.

Her tireless work has had a lasting impact on the transgender community, and her legacy inspires those who fight for justice and equality.

Notable Quote: "I don't want to be remembered for the things I did, but for the lives I changed."

Learn More: The Story of Lorena Borjas

Lorraine Hansberry (1930 - 1965)

Field: Playwriting, Activism

Lorraine Hansberry made history as the first Black woman to have a play performed on Broadway. Her play A Raisin in the Sun is still one of the most famous and powerful plays ever written about the Black experience in America.

Lorraine was also part of the LGBTQIA+ community and used her platform to write about race, gender, and sexuality. Her story shows that art can change the world, and you can too.

Notable Work: A Raisin in the Sun (1959)

Learn More: Lorraine Hansberry Biography

Miss Major Griffin-Gracy (1940 - Present)

Field: Activism

Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, often simply known as Miss Major, has spent her entire life fighting for trans women of color and people impacted by the prison system. She was present during the Stonewall Uprising in 1969 and has continued advocating for the most marginalized people in the LGBTQIA+ community ever since.

Her message is simple but powerful: love, community, and resilience will always win.

Notable Quote: "I'm a survivor, not a victim. I'm still here, and I’m still fighting."

Learn More: Life Story: Miss Major Griffin-Gracy

Sally Ride (1951 - 2012)

Field: Science, Space Exploration

Sally Ride was the first American woman—and the first known LGBTQIA+ person—to travel to space. Her 1983 journey aboard the Space Shuttle Challenger proved that women could do anything.

Sally kept her relationship with her partner, Tam O'Shaughnessy, private during her lifetime, but she is now remembered as a trailblazing astronaut and advocate for women in science. Sally's story is a reminder that there are no limits to what you can achieve.

Notable Achievement: First American woman in space (1983)

Learn More: Sally Ride Biography

Nancy Valverde (1932–2024)

Field: Activism

Nancy Valverde was a Chicana lesbian activist who stood up to unfair laws that targeted people for dressing in gender-nonconforming ways. When police arrested her repeatedly for wearing men's clothing, Nancy taught herself the law and challenged the system.

Her bravery helped change the law and protect queer people in Los Angeles — and her story reminds us that standing up for yourself can create real change.

Notable Achievement: Fighting and overturning discriminatory laws against gender nonconformity.

Learn More: The Chicana butch lesbian who defied the LAPD – and won: ‘I couldn’t be someone else’

Margaret Cho (1968 - Present)

Field: Comedy, Acting, Activism

Margaret Cho is a Korean-American comedian, actress, and LGBTQIA+ activist known for her fearless and hilarious stand-up comedy. She often talks about race, sexuality, and social justice in her work, proving that humor can be a powerful tool for change.

Margaret's visibility and voice have paved the way for queer Asian representation in entertainment. She shows that you can be loud, proud, and unapologetically yourself.

Notable Quote: "When you feel powerful, you are willing to stand up for your rights, you are willing to stand up for what you believe in, you're more willing to stand up and be counted."

Learn more: Margaret Cho: Comedy & queer politics are 'absolutely linked'

Sylvia Rivera (1951 - 2002)

Field: Activism

Sylvia Rivera was a pioneering transgender activist and a foundational figure in the LGBTQIA+ rights movement. She was an early member of the Gay Liberation Front and the Gay Activists Alliance. Along with Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia co-founded the Street Transvestite Action Revolutionaries (STAR) in 1970. STAR was a group focused on advocating for homeless transgender people, particularly transgender women of color, and providing them with shelter, food, and support.

Sylvia's bold activism and commitment to marginalized communities laid the groundwork for the modern transgender rights movement. She never stopped fighting for the most vulnerable in society, particularly trans women and gender non-conforming people.

Notable Quote: "I have not given up the struggle, and I will never give up the struggle."

Learn more: Sylvia Rivera Biography

Cecilia Chung (1968 - Present)

Field: Activism

Cecilia Chung is a transgender activist and public health advocate who has worked tirelessly to improve the lives of LGBTQIA+ individuals, especially those impacted by HIV. As one of the first openly transgender women to hold a prominent position in public health, Cecilia has used her platform to advocate for the rights of transgender people, immigrants, and people of color.

She has served on the board of the San Francisco Human Rights Commission and continues to fight for social justice and health equality.

Notable Achievement: Advocate for transgender rights and public health reform, instrumental in the fight for the rights of marginalized communities.

Learn more: Cecilia Chung's Story

You Can Change History, Too

The women in this article didn't wait for permission to make a difference. They showed up, spoke out, and lived authentically. And you can do the same.

Whether you want to write stories, lead marches, create art, or change laws, your voice matters. The LGBTQIA+ women who came before you proved that one person can change the world. So dream big, stay bold, and know that you have the power to make history, too.

If you're looking for a place to find community and support, Out Youth is here for you. And if you ever need inspiration, remember the women who came before you and how they turned their dreams into change.

Your story matters. And you can change history, too.

The Intersection of Race and Queerness in Advocacy: Supporting Black LGBTQIA+ Youth

Black History Month is a time to celebrate the resilience, brilliance, and contributions of Black individuals throughout history. While we honor the past, we must also recognize the present struggles and triumphs of Black LGBTQIA+ youth, who navigate unique challenges at the intersection of race and queerness. At Out Youth, we believe that advocacy must be intersectional, ensuring that all queer youth, regardless of race, feel seen, supported, and empowered.

Understanding the Challenges Faced by Black LGBTQIA+ Youth

Black LGBTQIA+ youth often experience compounded discrimination stemming from both their racial and sexual identities. A survey by the Center for American Progress revealed that 33% of Black LGBTQ individuals reported experiencing discrimination in the past year, affecting various aspects of their lives, including housing and healthcare access (americanprogress.org).

Mental health disparities are also prevalent. The Trevor Project found that 66% of Black LGBTQ youth reported experiencing depressed mood in the past year, with 35% seriously considering suicide (thetrevorproject.org). Additionally, Black LGBTQ youth often face racism within LGBTQ spaces and homophobia or transphobia within Black communities, leading to a sense of isolation and reluctance to seek necessary services (19thnews.org).

The Importance of Inclusive Activism

Inclusive activism that acknowledges and addresses the intersectionality of race and queerness is essential. Embracing intersectionality empowers the LGBTQIA+ movement to amplify the voices and experiences of marginalized individuals within the community. It ensures that the concerns, perspectives, and unique challenges faced by all members are acknowledged, respected, and addressed.

By advocating for inclusive policies and representation, queer activism seeks to uplift voices that are often marginalized within both racial and sexual identity discourses. Organizations like the National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC) are dedicated to empowering Black LGBTQIA+ individuals through advocacy and policy work. David J. Johns, the executive director of NBJC, emphasizes the importance of equity over equality, tailoring support to individual needs (time.com).

Black-Led LGBTQIA+ Organizations Making a Difference

If we want to foster meaningful change, we must support the organizations that are already doing this vital work. Here are some Black-led or Black-focused LGBTQIA+ organizations that deserve recognition and support:

Austin-Based Organizations

• allgo – A Texas-based organization that uplifts queer people of color through cultural arts, wellness programs, and social justice initiatives.

• Black Trans Leadership of Austin (BTLA) – A community-led organization focusing on advocacy, leadership development, and direct support for Black trans individuals in Central Texas.

National Organizations

• The National Black Justice Coalition (NBJC) – A civil rights organization dedicated to empowering Black LGBTQIA+ individuals through policy work, education, and community organizing.

• The Marsha P. Johnson Institute – Named after the legendary activist, this organization protects and defends the rights of Black trans people through advocacy, arts, and direct support.

How You Can Support Black LGBTQIA+ Youth

Advocacy is an ongoing commitment, and there are many ways to show up for Black LGBTQIA+ youth during Black History Month and beyond:

• Donate to Black-led LGBTQIA+ organizations that provide life-saving resources and services.

• Amplify Black LGBTQIA+ voices by sharing their stories, books, and media.

• Educate yourself and others about the unique challenges Black queer youth face and how to be a better ally.

• Create inclusive spaces in schools, workplaces, and communities that acknowledge and celebrate intersectional identities.

Moving Forward Together

At Out Youth, we are committed to ensuring that Black LGBTQIA+ youth have the resources, representation, and support they need to thrive. This Black History Month, we encourage you to reflect on how you can be part of the movement for a more just and inclusive future. By standing in solidarity with Black queer communities, we honor the past while building a brighter tomorrow.

Let’s celebrate Black history and queer futures—together.

New Year, New You: Embracing Authenticity and Self-Discovery in 2025 for LGBTQIA+ Youth

As we step into 2025, many of us are reflecting on the past year and setting intentions for the one ahead. The New Year is a perfect opportunity for personal growth and fresh starts. For LGBTQIA+ individuals, this is the ideal time to explore what it means to live authentically and embrace who you are. For queer and trans youth, self-discovery can be empowering, yet it can also be challenging, especially in a world that doesn’t always understand or accept you. This year, let's focus on authenticity, self-discovery, and the power of living your truth.

The Importance of Living Authentically as an LGBTQIA+ Individual

Living authentically means being true to who you are, without hiding or altering yourself to meet others' expectations. For LGBTQIA+ youth, this journey may be filled with obstacles, but it’s one of the most rewarding paths you can take.

Why Authenticity Matters for LGBTQIA+ Youth:

1. Mental Health Benefits: Embracing your true identity has positive effects on mental health. Studies show that LGBTQIA+ youth who feel supported in their identities are less likely to face mental health challenges such as depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.

2. Boosting Self-Esteem: When you live authentically, you build your self-esteem. You start appreciating yourself for who you truly are, rather than conforming to societal norms or others' expectations.

3. Building Stronger Relationships: Authenticity fosters deeper, more meaningful relationships. When you show up as your true self, you attract people who appreciate and support you for who you are.

Steps Toward Self-Discovery in 2025: Embracing Your Authentic Self

The path to self-discovery is unique for everyone, and it’s okay to take your time. Here are steps LGBTQIA+ youth can take in 2025 to explore and embrace their identities:

1. Reflect on Your Identity
   Take time to reflect on who you are and what you want from life. You can do this by journaling, talking to a trusted friend or therapist, or simply spending time alone to think things through.

2. Connect with LGBTQIA+ Communities
   Finding others who share your experiences is empowering. Look for local LGBTQIA+ support groups or online communities where you can meet people who understand and support you.

3. Set Personal Boundaries
   Living authentically also means learning to set boundaries. Protect your mental and emotional well-being by deciding who you spend time with and how you allow others to treat you.

4. Explore Your Self-Expression
   Discover new ways to express yourself through fashion, art, writing, or other forms of creativity. Experiment with different styles and activities until you find what feels right for you.

5. Educate Yourself About LGBTQIA+ History and Rights
   Knowledge is empowering. Learn about the history, struggles, and rights of LGBTQIA+ individuals. This can give you strength and inspiration as you explore your identity and build your future.

LGBTQIA+ Resources for Youth in 2025

You are not alone in your journey of self-discovery and embracing your authentic self. Here are some valuable resources for LGBTQIA+ youth in 2025:

• Out Youth Services: Out Youth provides counseling, peer support groups, and safe social spaces for LGBTQIA+ youth. Whether you need a listening ear or a space to explore your identity, we’re here for you.

• The Trevor Project: The Trevor Project offers 24/7 support for LGBTQIA+ youth in crisis via phone, text, and chat. They provide essential resources for mental health and coming out support.

• GLAAD: An organization promoting LGBTQIA+ representation and advocacy in the media, GLAAD offers tools for youth navigating coming out, dealing with discrimination, and more.

• Local LGBTQIA+ Groups: Seek out LGBTQIA+ groups, community centers, and youth clubs in your area. They provide a sense of belonging and the chance to build lasting friendships with others who understand.

Conclusion: Step Into the New Year with Confidence and Pride

As 2025 begins, remember that living authentically is an act of self-love and resilience. By embracing your true self, you are not only enriching your own life but also contributing to a world where everyone can live openly and authentically. Whether you are just starting your journey or continuing to explore your identity, this New Year is the perfect opportunity to step into your truth with confidence and pride.

Holiday Prep: Navigating the Season as an LGBTQIA+ Youth or Ally

Rachael Longoria, MS, LPC, NCC (she/her) is Out Youth’s Director of Clinical & Social Services. She is also an Adjunct Professor of Counseling at St. Edward’s University, President of the Capital of Texas Counseling Association, a PhD candidate at Texas Tech University’s Counseling Education program, and operates a private counseling practice, SpeakEasy Counseling, LLC.

Alok Vaid-Menon once said, “It’s never been about comprehension, it’s always been about compassion.” This quote feels especially important as we head into the holiday season. For LGBTQIA+ youth, this time of year can bring joy but also many challenges.

The holidays often come with more harmful rhetoric and policies that target LGBTQIA+ communities. Many queer and trans youth face higher risks of depression, including seasonal depression, compared to their cisgender, heterosexual peers. Affirming someone’s identity can greatly improve mental health for LGBTQIA+ youth (Riggle et al., 2014; Tordoff et al., 2022). Without support, though, youth in states with anti-LGBTQIA+ policies are more likely to experience bullying and substance use (Watson et al., 2021). The Trevor Project also found that less than 40% of LGBTQIA+ youth feel their home is a supportive space.

Family gatherings and traditions can sometimes bring tension for LGBTQIA+ individuals. Whether you are part of the LGBTQIA+ community or an ally, showing compassion can make a big difference. Here are some tips to help you or your loved ones get through the holidays.

Holiday Coping Tips for LGBTQIA+ Youth

1. Find affirming spaces. Spend time with people who allow you to be your true self. Safe and supportive environments can make the holidays much easier.

2. Check in with your emotions. Ask yourself how you’re feeling. Do you need a break? Is there someone you trust to lean on? Have a plan for coping if things get tough.

3. Follow positive voices online. Make your social media a space that uplifts you. Follow people and organizations that reflect your values and make you feel good about yourself. (Like Out Youth!)

4. Consider advocacy or activism. If it feels right, take part in actions that support LGBTQIA+ rights. Advocacy can look different for everyone, from speaking up in conversations to supporting policy changes. Choose what feels empowering to you.

Tips for Allies of LGBTQIA+ Loved Ones

• Show your support. Let your loved one know you care about them and value who they are.

• Ask questions with kindness. Be curious and open to learning about their experiences.

• Educate yourself. Learn about LGBTQIA+ topics on your own so your loved one doesn’t have to explain everything.

• Be nonjudgmental. Create a space where your loved one feels safe and supported.

• Offer affirmations. A simple “I’m here for you” can go a long way.

A Reminder of Your Worth

It’s easy to give compassion to others, but don’t forget to show it to yourself. The holidays can be tough, especially if you’re in a space that doesn’t feel affirming. Here’s your reminder: you are loved, you matter, and you deserve to take care of yourself this holiday season.

Whether you find strength in advocacy, supportive spaces, or allyship, these steps can help make the holidays more manageable. Remember, you are not alone. Out Youth and many other organizations are here to support you through it all.

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Riggle, E., Gonzalez, K., Rostosky, S., & Black, W. (2014). Cultivating positive LGBTQA identities: An intervention study with college students. Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling, 8(3), 264-281. https://doi.org/10.1080/15538605.2014.933468

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